I think we erode a relationship from the start if we question it and compare it or judge it ... if you find a person whom you love and you commit to them,  then accept that.

Acceptance is the hardest of all things in life but if you accept that there is no other option than to stand by your commitment for this entire life... then you will.

Perhaps a time will come when you are not appreciated and even looked down on or you are hurt and surrounded by what seems to be better options , but that time will pass for those who have Accepted the commitment.

 Life will teach each lesson and you will grow stronger not more distant or weaker ... its like a PHD , if after 5 years we drop of school and start a new degree then we will never know what is it like to be a Doctor, we can only speculate.

I believe people should only have a partner who has a kind heart , because its difficult to know the road ahead ... if they have a good heart they can be taught easily by life and overcome anything... this is most precisely the meaning of human spirit and its value , its easy to love one who has a good heart , its easy to accept there fault and forgive the wrongs , its very hard to betray this person , and never keep count of what you give or receive , there is no such thing as fairness in life or in relationship , only be thankful it exists and you will appreciate even the smallest thing given to you.

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How will you live your life ? will you be a bad person ? what would your hopes be  if it were fact that god comes down and proclaims and also proves that when you die you will not exist and also the earth and Galaxy's will be demolished in 3 years.

Its depressing to think but I'm curious what people will be like , you can do anything you want now for your own fun and anyway we all don't exist when we die.

I don't believe this is true but I was thinking about the subject from something i read.